“There are no dateable guys out there; I haven’t found a guy
with even 2 items on my checklist”
“I have a checklist too, each year I don’t find the man of
my dreams I take another item of the list, soon this list is going to be a
white piece of paper…”
That was a part of the conversation
between Hilary duff and her boss in “Beauty and the briefcase”. Although her boss was a successful, beautiful
woman; but yet she felt she needed to lower her standards in order to get a
man, any man. the truth is, a lot of women think that way; the fear of being
alone makes them insecure that they’ll willing to settle with any man as long
as he breathes.
And to these women, you should be
ashamed of yourselves! You’re independent, smart, educated women of qualities
and you deserve to have men of qualities like you are. You should never under
any circumstances accept anything less than what you deserve.
Everywoman should have her own list
and her own standards that she holds on to; I am not talking about a list that
contains items like “Playing a music instrument, a foreign accent” like the
movie did. I am talking about things like: “Education, ambition, treating you
well, supporting, helpful…” and many other things that can’t be just optional,
they must be a MUST in your partner; they’re necessary and you can’t live
without.
Dear women; you should all know
that there are good men out there, there are men who will appreciate you and
treat you the way you deserve to be treated; NEVER settle for less! And you should know that “Act like a jerk and
she’ll fall for you!” a rule that only works with women who have low
self-esteem; because women of high quality WILL NOT accept to be treated with
disrespect or depreciation, so be one! :)
